
What dog is right for me? 12 questions to ask before choosing a breed
What dog is right for me? 12 questions to ask before choosing a breed
Falling in love with a dog’s face is easy. But choosing the right breed or mix for your lifestyle takes a bit more thought. Whether you’re adopting or buying from a reputable breeder, asking the right questions helps ensure a happy life for you and your future dog.
Here are 12 key questions to ask yourself — with guidance on what to consider, and some example breeds that might suit your answers.
1. How much daily exercise can I realistically provide?
Some dogs need hours of physical activity, while others are content with a stroll and a snooze.
Think about:
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Your energy levels
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Work schedule
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Access to safe walking areas
If you’re active and love long walks or runs: consider a Border Collie, Vizsla, Springer Spaniel, or Labrador.
If you prefer short walks and gentle play: a Cavalier King Charles Spaniel, Pug, or Shih Tzu may suit better.
Tip: Be honest about what you can sustain long term, not just on weekends or holidays.
2. How much time can I dedicate to training and mental stimulation?
All dogs need training, but some breeds are more independent, strong-willed, or clever — and may get bored easily.
High trainability but high needs: Border Collies, German Shepherds, Poodles
Easy-going and eager to please: Golden Retrievers, Labradors, Cocker Spaniels
Independent thinkers: Afghan Hounds, Chows, Basenjis
Tip: If you’re new to dogs or short on time, choose a breed known for being biddable and eager to learn.
3. How much space do I have at home?
A big house doesn’t always mean you need a big dog. Some large breeds are couch potatoes, while some small breeds are highly energetic.
Good for small homes or flats: French Bulldog, Dachshund, Chihuahua, Whippet
Require more space or garden access: Labradors, Weimaraners, German Shepherds
Tip: Even small dogs need outdoor time and stimulation — don’t rely on garden size alone.
4. Do I want a dog that sheds very little or a lot?
Coat type affects how much cleaning and grooming you’ll do.
Low-shedding (but may need regular grooming): Poodles (and mixes like Cockapoos), Bichon Frise, Portuguese Water Dog
Moderate to heavy shedders: Golden Retrievers, Huskies, German Shepherds
Tip: No dog is truly hypoallergenic, but low-shedding breeds may suit allergy-prone homes better.
5. What’s my tolerance for noise and barking?
Some dogs are naturally more vocal — it’s part of their job history (like guarding or alerting).
Tend to bark more: Terriers, Beagles, Chihuahuas
Generally quieter breeds: Greyhounds, Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, Bernese Mountain Dogs
Tip: Training helps, but natural tendencies matter too — especially in shared housing or quiet neighbourhoods.
6. Am I happy to do regular grooming?
Long-haired or curly-coated dogs need brushing several times a week (or even daily). Others may only need a bath now and then.
High-maintenance coats: Poodles, Old English Sheepdogs, Afghan Hounds
Low-maintenance coats: Beagles, Boxers, Labradors
Tip: Factor in grooming costs if you plan to use a professional groomer.
7. Do I have young children or plan to in the future?
Temperament and patience are key here. Some breeds are famously gentle and tolerant. Others may not enjoy the noise or rough handling that comes with little ones.
Known for being good with kids: Golden Retrievers, Labradors, Border Terriers, Beagles
More sensitive or reserved: Shiba Inu, Chow Chow, Shar Pei
Tip: Always supervise dogs and children, no matter the breed.
8. Will my dog be alone during the day?
All dogs prefer company, but some breeds cope better with alone time than others. Others may develop separation anxiety if left for long periods.
More independent breeds: Greyhounds, Basenjis, Chow Chows
Need lots of company: Cavalier King Charles Spaniels, Labrador Retrievers, Miniature Schnauzers
Tip: If you're away often, consider dog daycare, a walker, or adopting a bonded pair.
9. Do I want a dog that’s sociable with people and other animals?
Some breeds are naturally friendly. Others may be aloof, shy, or need more socialisation to get along with others.
Sociable breeds: Labradors, Golden Retrievers, Cockapoos
More reserved or selective: Akitas, Dobermans, Belgian Malinois
Tip: Breed matters, but early training and positive exposure make a huge difference.
10. Am I looking for a companion or a working partner?
Some people want a chill cuddle buddy. Others want a dog that can hike, compete, or even do a job.
Best companion dogs: Pugs, Cavaliers, Maltese
Best for active or working homes: Border Collies, Belgian Shepherds
Tip: A high-energy dog without a job often finds one — and it might be eating your sofa.
11. Am I open to adopting a mixed breed?
Mixed breeds (mongrels or mutts) often have the best of both worlds — varied personalities, fewer inherited health issues, and bags of charm.
Consider a mix if:
- You value personality over pedigree
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You want to adopt from a rescue
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You're open to adult dogs with known traits
Tip: Speak to rescue staff — they’ll help match you with the right dog, regardless of breed.
12. Am I ready for the next 10–15 years?
Dogs are a long-term commitment — emotionally, financially, and practically.
Ask yourself:
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Can I afford food, insurance, vet bills?
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Am I willing to adjust my life around a dog?
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Where do I see myself in 5–10 years?
Tip: If in doubt, consider fostering first — it gives you a taste of dog life without the lifetime promise.
Final thoughts
Choosing the right breed is about matching you as much as the dog. Take your time, do your research, and don’t be swayed by looks alone.
The right dog is the one who fits your rhythm, shares your energy, and fills your home with the kind of companionship you’re ready to give back.