Losing a dog is one of the most heart-wrenching experiences a pet owner can go through. Our dogs aren’t just animals; they are family. They’re our loyal companions, our comforters, our joy-bringers. Whether your dog passed away suddenly or after a long illness, it’s natural to feel overwhelmed by grief, confusion, and even guilt.

If you’re asking yourself, “My dog has died – what should I do?”, this guide is here to help you through the immediate steps and offer emotional support during this incredibly difficult time.

1. Allow Yourself to Grieve

Grief is real, valid, and deeply personal. Don’t feel pressured to ‘move on’ quickly or pretend you’re fine. Let yourself cry, talk about your dog, or simply sit with your memories. Whether you’ve lost a pup, a senior dog, or one taken far too soon, the grief deserves space.

Speak to friends or family who understand what your dog meant to you. There are also pet bereavement helplines and support groups available, such as those offered by the Blue Cross or the Pet Bereavement Support Service in the UK.

2. Take Care of Practical Matters

When a dog dies, there are a few things you’ll need to consider depending on where and how they passed away:

If Your Dog Died at Home

• Contact your vet: They can guide you on next steps and may offer a collection service.

• Preserve your dog’s body (temporarily): If your vet can’t come immediately, place your dog on a blanket in a cool, quiet space. You may gently wrap them and keep the room ventilated.

If Your Dog Passed at the Vet

• Ask about aftercare: Your vet may offer cremation or burial services, or recommend a local pet crematorium or cemetery.

3. Consider Aftercare Options

Here are some options for laying your dog to rest:

• Cremation (Individual or Communal): You can keep your dog’s ashes in a memorial urn or scatter them somewhere meaningful.

• Home Burial: If legal in your area and you own your land, you may bury your dog in your garden. Ensure it’s deep enough and away from water sources.

• Pet Cemeteries: Some people find comfort in visiting a designated burial site for their pet.

4. Honour Their Memory

Creating a tribute can help you feel connected to your dog and celebrate the life you shared. You might consider:

• A framed photo or paw print

• Planting a tree or flower in their memory

• Writing a letter to your dog

• Making a scrapbook or photo album

• Donating to a dog rescue charity in their name

At Poppy’s Picnic, many of us are dog owners too, and we know how strong these bonds are. Some of our customers have shared stories of placing their dog’s favourite toy or a note alongside their ashes or memorial spot—a small gesture that can bring great comfort.

5. Be Gentle With Yourself in the Days Ahead

There is no “normal” timeline for healing. Some days will feel harder than others. You may see your dog’s bed or hear a sound and instinctively expect them to be there. These moments can sting—but they are also a sign of the love you shared.

In time, the memories will feel less painful and more precious. Whether you choose to bring another dog into your life someday or not, your bond with your late dog will always remain.

6. Helping Children Understand

If you have children, be honest and age-appropriate when explaining what has happened. Let them express their feelings, draw pictures, or help with a memorial. Books about pet loss can also help young ones process grief.

7. What About Your Dog’s Belongings?

It can be difficult to know what to do with their bed, collar, bowls, or food. Some find comfort in keeping items for a while, while others prefer to donate them. There’s no rush—do what feels right for you.

If you have unopened dog food, like Poppy’s Picnic, you might consider donating it to a local rescue or dog shelter in your dog’s honour.

In Loving Memory

Losing a dog leaves a huge hole in your life. But it also leaves a legacy—of loyalty, joy, and unconditional love. Let yourself mourn, take the time you need, and remember: your dog knew they were loved, every single day.

If you’d like to commemorate your dog’s life, we welcome you to share a tribute with us. Many in the Poppy’s Picnic community find solace in telling their stories—because we truly believe that every dog leaves paw prints on our hearts.